01-06-2009, 11:46 PM
My 10 year old son also has difficulties with anger and frustration, and often there are tears involved. I have found a few things that work - one, giving him choices where school work or chores are involved (letting him choose what he wants to work on first, for example). We have also found some success in brief"fun time outs"- when he gets really frustrated by something, we will take a short break and read a fun story, maybe play a game for a while, then tackle whatever we were working on again. When it comes to getting his way, clear limits and expectations have really helped - if we say no to something, we are firm, but explain why we made that decision. It has helped quite a bit. It is really frustrating as a parent, and so hard to stay patient and not send him to his room or threaten to break out the duct tape... keep trying different things, a few times, and if it doesn't work, move on to something new. Best of luck!
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