Sorry for your loss, I would have to say time will heal, and let yourself grieve, cry, and day by day you will get better...even if you dont feel it..one day you will. In the meantime, counseling is wonderful, because you can make friends you can talk to and can relate to. Also, try to keep busy, read, start up a hobbie, watch funny movies, volunteer at a local hospital or church. Being around people and helping others always helps somehow.
Again, sorry for your loss. Best wishes to you.