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Default How easily does having a cold sore pass on genital herpes to a partner? - 12-19-2008, 11:52 PM

I have a cold sore and i gave my boyfriend oral sex without letting the actual sore touch him. We then had unprotected sex. Will he get genital herpes from the fact that my saliva came in contact with his penis and will i in turn also develop the infection in my vagina as we had sex immediately afterwards? I freaked out after and made him have a shower, but didn't think of whether i was at risk at the time. Will this have prevented him from getting it? My bf has never had a cold sore and niehter of us have ever had genital herpes. I'm freaking out i don't want us to get herpes!
   
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Default 12-20-2008, 12:05 PM

im not to informed on this, but my friend has it,,,,her boyfriend"went south"on her with a coldsore,,,,she now has genital herpes,,,, not sure if this is what caused it but she said it was,,,,,,you HAVE to go to a doctor,,,,,,it will be embarrassing,,,but its something you have to do!
   
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Default 12-23-2008, 11:17 PM

What Causes Cold Sores?Cold sores are caused by a virus called herpes (say: hur-peez). Herpes is one of the most common viral infections in the world. The medical name for the specific virus that causes cold sores is herpes simplex.There are two types of herpes simplex infection: herpes simplex virus one (called HSV-1 for short) and herpes simplex virus two (called HSV-2 for short). Although both can cause cold sores around a person's mouth, most are caused by HSV-1.HSV-1 is so common that most Americans get infected with it, although many never have any symptoms. People can catch HSV-1 by kissing a person with a cold sore or sharing a drinking glass or utensils, so it's easy to see why there are so many cold sores around.Kids who get infected with HSV-1 may get cold sores occasionally for the rest of their lives That's because even after the sores themselves dry up and go away, the virus stays in the body, waiting around for another time to come out and cause more sores. When a cold sore reappears, it is often in the same place as the previous one.Genital herpesis a sexually transmitted disease (STD) caused by the herpes simplex viruses type 1 (HSV-1) and type 2 (HSV-2). Most genital herpes is caused by HSV-2. Most individuals have no or only minimal signs or symptoms from HSV-1 or HSV-2 infection. When signs do occur, they typically appear as one or more blisters on or around the genitals or rectum. The blisters break, leaving tender ulcers (sores) that may take two to four weeks to heal the first time they occur. Typically, another outbreak can appear weeks or months after the first, but it almost always is less severe and shorter than the first outbreak. Although the infection can stay in the body indefinitely, the number of outbreaks tends to decrease over a period of years.
   
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Default 01-04-2009, 02:02 PM

Yes, it's possible for you spread herpes to his genital area by giving him oral sex. And, yes, it's possible for you to become infected with the virus since you had unprotected sex with him afterwards.Herpes is spread by DIRECT skin to skin contact. So, if you have him oral sex while you had a cold sore, it's possible he'll develop genital herpes.And, if he does develop genital herpes from that, then it's possible for him to spread it to you during sex (protected or not - condoms are not 100% effective). You would then have cold sores and genital herpes.Also, taking a shower won't prevent the virus from infecting him or you.Herpes simplex virus 1 and 2 causes both cold sores and genital herpes. Cold sores are usually caused by herpes simplex virus 1, while genital herpes are usually caused by herpes simplex virus 2.I'd suggest you both wait and see if either of you develop an outbreak of genital herpes. If you don't see an outbreak then you might not have it. I'd also suggest you go and get tested in a few weeks. Herpes is usually diagnosed with a physical exam when the person is having an outbreak, but it can also be diagnosed with a blood test.Good luck!
   
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Default 01-06-2009, 07:27 PM

u gave him herpes. Take him to get checked out
   
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