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Default I have been married for 18 years and my wife wands a divorce. Menopause? - 05-21-2009, 01:02 AM

I love my wife and i am very attracted to her . I am not an ass. I did recognized my mistakes and i apologized for them . I even took responsibility for accusations that they were not truth. I've lost count of the times she called me asshole and little man ( ???? ) She depraved me the affection i needed and i asked for again and again in our private moments. She didn't hugged me or kissed me for the last 10 or more years. Now she wands a divorce. Maybe i was a bud husband. That is her wright and i understand that, but she gets involve our three kids and i think this is wrong. I don't have the strength to fight it any more.Help.
   
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Default 05-24-2009, 01:02 AM

Sit her down and tell her how she makes you feel. then let her go.
   
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Default 05-28-2009, 01:02 AM

You should have left 10 years ago.

Why be miserable for 10 years? It would have freed both of you! You deserved to be happy, loved and wanted - just as much as the next guy or gal.

Don't walk to the Divorce lawyer - RUN!

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Default 05-31-2009, 01:02 AM

Perhaps she just lost interest regardless of what did or didn't do. It may not necessarily be your 'fault' or her 'fault', these things just happen. You should get professional help, see a counselor.
   
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Default 06-04-2009, 01:02 AM

give her what she wants. love don't live there anymore.
   
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Default 06-08-2009, 01:02 AM

my husband told me he wanted a divorce and he refused to go to counseling and was very clear he wanted a divorce. my friends told me...why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want you anymore? if she hasn't shown any affection for 10 years, what is keeping you in the marriage? it takes 2 people to have a relationship and she apparently does not intend to be part of that anymore. its difficult because you still love her, but she has treated you badly by calling you names and wit holding affection. wouldn't you rather be with someone who would appreciate you and love you back? maybe its time to move on. i wish you the best.
   
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Default 06-11-2009, 01:02 AM

This is very common to most of the western family as they are not family orientated. Well, try to talk to her what she wants and asked to think about your three children future. What do she gets after divorce? I think she needs some enjoyment to satisfy. Do something that attracted to her and makes the family great instead of suffering.
   
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Default 06-15-2009, 01:02 AM

You are a pansy. She needs a masculine man. First of all, a man doesn't ask his wife. If he wants love, and she doesn't, he pins her under his hard masculine physique and uses her as flesh to sate his primal urge.

Women suffer sensual guilt. Unless she's getting spanked regularly, she'll find a man with a firm masculine hand. If you don't want a divorce, quit being a sissy. If I was married to you I would have divorced you a long time ago.

Here's what will probably wind her clock! Tell her you're the man, and she isn't getting a divorce. Tell her, "No other man is ever going to have you!! You are MY wife!! Now get down on your knees and confess your sins!! And I don't want to hear any excuses!!

"I want to hear you confess failure to use your body in a way pleasing to God, intentionally sterilizing your beautiful womanhood into a barren semen receptacle, consensual sensual pleasure, performing godless perversions of the female reproductive act, disobedience, rebellion, arrogance, and any other sins you might be aware of.

"After you're done confessing, you can tell me, 'I've been a naughty girl. I need a spanking.'"

It works every time. She can't stand being touched by you, because of her sensual guilt. She wants a masculine man. Now suck it up and act like one!! You almost make me want to cry!!
   
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