[pav]

Leave you with a feeling of not wanting sex,you see my wife says she loves me but she really doesn't want to have sex at all.Its been months 7 to be exact and any time I Initiate she gets mad and says how can I think of that at a moment like this.Im going crazy don't know what to do Im thinking of going to see a therapist next week. I don't know if it will help , all I want is to make love to my wife my heart is slowly breaking.Tired of rubbing it off please help me understand if you guys know ,or experience something like this.Now serious answers please

[wampum15]

Recommend: She needs to go to the doctor and have her hormones checked. They may be all out of kilter.

Joy to you.

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Im 49 and I STILL want my husband sexually Every woman is different I guess when it comes to menopause...I just love my guy to death!! But maybe your wife is having problems with the hormonal changes in her body. Maybe she needs to get a prescription for this....Alot of woman do. How was she before the change? Did she like making love before?

[Natural Healer]

I guess women react in different way. I have never heard them talk of losing sexual desire. Maybe you can suggest her to see a doctor, if she isn't seeing one already. She is not being fair to you, she needs to understand that. I hope she isn't using menopause as an excuse to just not have sex with you. Have you thought about taking her out of town to a nice motel, renting a room, having smooth music, and wine? Maybe she is just bored at home all the time.

[Jouja G]

Have her get a thorough physical and a gynecological check up!
She may need some hormone replacements.
Regular exercise will get those pheromones going as well.
Often, women get more interested in sex after danger of pregnancy is gone, the kids have left the nest - you two should have the time of your life!

[A.B.]

she needs to see a pastor's wife, she is sinning against you.
it really is a sin to deprive you.
stay strong, do not lower your standards because of her mistake.
I'm not a guy but i know this is wrong.
she needs to get interested in God's word.
to answer your question--yes i think so.

[CuriouslyCurious]

My dear man,it might just be you she doesn't want to have sex with anymore. Maybe it's become boring or you did something to her to make her feel that way. Don't be so quick and blame menopause for it.Go to a sex therapist and see what they can find out, I have a feeling she's angry with you for something.( I'm an old ex married woman of 72 and am still very sexual)