[mayella<3]

Me and my boyfriend used to do fool around multiple times a week, almost every time we saw each other. Never actually sex, though, because I want to wait.However, I recently lost a lot of weight and I admit that I am underweight, and I haven't had my period in over a year, which is when my sex drive DRAMATICALLY slowed down. My boyfriend understands why it's gone, but I still want it back. Help?

[Sarah]

You will need to get back to a healthy weight in order for that to happen. Maybe try candles or relaxing music?

16... Okay I also think you should work on getting your weight back up little to a healthier you.. Than take it day by day maybe you guys can work something out

It's probably not going to come back until you've gotten up to a healthy weight. Also, your period is connected to hormone fluctuations, which influence how horny you are.For a concern like this, I would say see a doctor. They do tend to understand these things.

[kels]

Ya you pretty much figured it out. You're body isn't in a healthy state which is why you aren't getting your period which is why your sex drive is gone.Getting your period is very important though! I don't mean for the sex drive part, but because girls bodies needs it. If it's been a year then you need to see a doctor. Don't be scared though. The doctor will tell you what needs to happen. Please go because you don't want to have problems down the road. Then after you both figure out how to do it, your sex drive will come back. Good luck(and i'm proud you want to wait)

you could have an eating disorder. thats what happend to me when i had one atleast

Gain some weight and have a little confidence in yourself. I think you should probably talk to a doctor about your period if you haven't already. or look it up on webmd.com

you need to maintain healthy diet again...you need to start your period and stuff...it's not good at all!!!