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Default What is the best way to resist sexual urges? – 01-17-2009, 01:51 AM

Hello, everyone. I am a 25 yr old single male who has struggled with sexual urges since about 15. At first, I thought it was all normal teenage thing and would go away as I enter my 20s. I felt it wouldn’t cause much problems at all.But to my surprise, I am still struggling mightily against the temptation. I don’t know why but the sexual urge feels as tempting as wanting to eat food, sleep, or drink water. I have VERY VERY hard time lasting 2 weeks without at least relieving myself through masturbation.I am still single and a virgin as well. So far, I have been using masturbation as a crutch to relieve my tensions but on some days, I find myself masturbating 3 times a day. Needless to say, I feel very humiliated, angry at myself on those days.Can anyone help me on some tips to resist the sexual urges or at least control my sexual urges? The urge really feels as strong as wanting to eat food, drink water, and sleep.Thanks in advance for any insights.
   
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Default 01-19-2009, 06:04 PM

juz have s e x!!
   
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Default 03-22-2009, 10:41 AM

Ask God for help. Its almost like an addiction, i no how it feels. whenever you want to, go for a jog, work out or something. once you resist a couple urges, you’ll feel good about not doing it.
   
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Default 06-21-2009, 06:32 PM

the only problem you have is a guilt problem, you need to get over that because masturating is completely normal even 3 times a day
   
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Default 07-05-2009, 04:42 PM

I dont think that you should feel guilty for masturbating. It’s a natural way of relieving stress and tension. Masturbating three times a day isnt bad. Im proud of you for being a virgin. You have more guts than any guy I know. That also proves that you’re a really strong guy. Dont feel guilty, be glad that you’ve lasted this long and if you dont want to give in then dont. Dont do anything that you’ll regret because sex only lasts a short amount of time but the guilt from not waiting lasts forever. I may be a girl but I do understand where you’re coming from. Good luck and best wishes.
   
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Default Here distant be down a correspondence in consciousness laws, UUERIR3215 – 03-25-2010, 03:29 PM

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Default 05-03-2011, 10:46 AM

sex is not bad thing it is also like mediation but the thing is wht is purpose of do it when u hav sex to satisfy ur lust then u can never satisfied urself but if hav sex with emotions u will definitely enjoy it.
   
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Default 05-27-2011, 03:22 PM

Hello there,
It’s an old post but still might help someone else.
Well, what has been working 100% for me for years now, Thank God is:
FIND Hobbies, anything to do that can make avoid thinking in that direction, read books.
Start practising a new sport, learning a new language, anything that will help you occupy your time and relieve that tension if you know what i mean.
Each time you feel like it, go for a walk, don’t stay alone, go visit a friend.
Also, i believe this does help but i have NO scientific explanation for it!! Drink LOTS of water, i guess that peeing a lot helps relieve some of the tension, give it a try, u have nothing to lose
Peace out
   
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Default 07-18-2012, 02:01 PM

occupy your mind with other things like logic puzzles or deep philosophical questions, or learn where these impulses come from and learn how to control them
   
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Default 12-29-2012, 10:22 PM

I believe sexual energy has a lot to do with creative energy. One of the best ways to avoid constant sexual urges is to channel that energy into something creative– find a hobby and something you enjoy doing. Exercise more, write, draw. Meditation also helps quite a bit.

There’s a really great book called "Eastern Body, Western Mind" that talks about sexuality and ways to reduce sexual urges. That being said, sexual urges aren’t a bad thing at all, don’t feel guilty about it. It’s good that you are recognizing it and want to help yourself.
   
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